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bully in sight by tim field

Postby psychiatry is a scam » Fri Mar 04, 2016 9:50 pm

while looking for info about ww1 and the execution of soldiers labeled cowards I came across the web sight for the first book I have about bullying .
good book and a better website
for the real minority ; there will be no justice , there will be no peace .
Just us or else . makes sense 2me , so it has 2be wrong

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Re: bully in sight by tim field

Postby Gord » Sat Mar 05, 2016 2:38 am

http://www.bullyonline.org/old/successu ... ismain.htm

Tells you how to beat the bullies

So, how do we beat the bullies?
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Re: bully in sight by tim field

Postby psychiatry is a scam » Sat Mar 05, 2016 4:26 am

Gord wrote:http://www.bullyonline.org/old/successunlimited/books/bismain.htm

Tells you how to beat the bullies

So, how do we beat the bullies?


in hindsight - parents should try to set their child up with a lawyer and a doctor (ideally family friends)
before they start working . regrettably lawyers and doctors only do that for wealthy people if anybody ?
should have the habit of emailing everything that is said and done - to the lawyer and doctor office help .
it is very important to not do this stuff alone
it is important to have a record and a lawyer and doctor who is on your side .

as long as lawyers and doctors side with the aggressive and blame the victims ; really little hope

first step would be to create a field that does not exist - right now doctors look at the victims of bullying , and try to get them to accept that they are being bullied because they are weak and stupid .
need doctors and lawyers who can look beyond that .
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Re: bully in sight by tim field

Postby Gord » Sat Mar 05, 2016 4:54 am

The hell?? Doctors and lawyers?? What are they going to do, go beat up my bully??

But no, I've never had any doctor ever tell me I was "weak and stupid" because someone else was a bully. That's more of a teacher or school administrator thing. And of course the old parental conflicting orders of "do not fight" and "defend yourself" BS.
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Re: bully in sight by tim field

Postby psychiatry is a scam » Sat Mar 05, 2016 10:35 am

Gord wrote:The hell?? Doctors and lawyers?? What are they going to do, go beat up my bully??

But no, I've never had any doctor ever tell me I was "weak and stupid" because someone else was a bully. That's more of a teacher or school administrator thing. And of course the old parental conflicting orders of "do not fight" and "defend yourself" BS.


I am just explaining the hindsight of my situation . what I know I needed and still need.
think about what it would feel like to go to a major hospital and talk to someone who is on the companies side .
it is very depressing / learned helplessness
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Re: bully in sight by tim field

Postby Gord » Sat Mar 05, 2016 11:28 am

:facepalm:

Doctors tend to be on the patient's side. That doesn't mean they'll tell you what you want to hear, though. What you want to hear may not be very helpful, realistic, or healthy.
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Re: bully in sight by tim field

Postby psychiatry is a scam » Sat Mar 26, 2016 4:10 am

Gord wrote::facepalm:

1- Doctors tend to be on the patient's side. 2- That doesn't mean they'll tell you what you want to hear, though. What you want to hear may not be very helpful, realistic, or healthy.


1- doctors tend to be on the side of people they like .
2- this might be correct for a lot of normal healthy people making some common basic mistake - but
your statement is a fundamental reality of society today . no doubt the majority of people would agree . majority ideas do not have to be right .
actually there are probably several examples of majority ideas being just a way to bully the masses .
my purpose since 1996 has been to point out this fundamental reality of doctors not siding with victims is a death sentence for victims .
one obvious example is the use of drug laws to knock down minorities and anybody who stumbles into that mess without a lot of money .
doctors and the whole medical / police complex are all about beating down anybody and everybody they can .
learned helplessness is what they give you - the opposite of empowerment .

there is a common slang expression that says basically the same thing your saying , in a blunt way .
something I have been told a lot . my reality is that I should - eat blank and die

I need to point out I am not trying to change ideas or win an argument .
also I will fail , but :-/
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Re: bully in sight by tim field

Postby Gord » Sat Mar 26, 2016 5:21 am

I don't think I understand what you're trying to say. I mean, if I do understand it, then you're just complaining that no one else will change their opinion to yours even if yours is wrong. But that doesn't make any sense.
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